The August cohort is closed. The next round opens in September, and the waitlist gets in first, at the founding rate.

The next cohort

F*ck Around and Find Out

A 1-Month Challenge for Ambitious Women

Become a woman who is unf*ckable with.

One month from now, the thing you keep putting off is done, and you're not the same woman who started.

The August cohort is closed. The waitlist gets the September doors first.

If you knew you wouldn't fail, what would you say yes to? What would you prioritize? What would you do?

Sit with that. Because that question is the whole challenge.

F*ck Around and Find Out is not a container or a program. It is a promise. A sacred oath with yourself and with the universe that this month, you let yourself try. You let yourself be seen reaching for it, seen failing, and held the entire way.

For one month, you prioritize the one thing you keep not getting around to. The thing you already know, for a fact, would change your life. And you don't do it alone. I got you. We got you. You will make real movement on it.

The last room did this

These are not testimonials I wrote. These are women who were standing exactly where you are, one month ago, straight from the group chat.

I am feeling so expansive and so much more on a higher frequency because of the women in this group. I can already sense that so much is clicking and aligning because of the energy. It's all about who you surround yourself with.

July cohort

I almost put it off until tomorrow, but I said, f*ck it, let's post it tonight.

July cohort

I did it. My biggest win today was going live for the first time ever.

July cohort

I woke up so early with so much energy, and I am not a morning person. I finally have the accountability I know I need.

July cohort

Every one of them started where you are standing. Feeling behind, even though they weren't. A full plate, doing everything and nothing at the same time, and finally done diluting themselves. They pointed it all at one thing, and now they have the receipts to show what they do when they aim.

You already know what you're capable of. You understand your power. And above all, you're no longer negotiating with comfort.

You can taste the life you want, because you're already living a version of it. You just want it fuller. More fluid. With sisterhood around you instead of going it alone.

The only thing between you and that life is that you've been spreading yourself across a dozen things to feel productive. The woman you want to be is on the other side of this challenge, where you finally show yourself what happens when you go all in on you and your one thing.

For one month, you get the support to finally move the needle on the one thing you keep putting off. This is where you go all in on you and become lethal. Not hard, not cold. Precise. A woman who has decided exactly what gets her time, her energy, and her yes.

Where you are

  • You could name the one goal that matters in a single sentence, and you keep burying it under twenty smaller ones.
  • Your power is real. Lately you've just been aiming it in ten directions at once.
  • You don't need more information or more motivation. You've read the books. You need to stop diluting yourself.
  • You are ready to put yourself first, out loud, and you're done waiting for a better moment to begin.

Where you leave

  • The one goal, finished. The book proposal sent, the licensing deal signed, the big close, the body, the being seen. A real finish line, not a vibe.
  • Yourself, finally first. Boundaries you honor, a nervous system that isn't running on fumes, and the harmony that comes from prioritizing you after years of everyone else.
  • A deep, unbothered respect for the woman in the mirror, and a circle of women who watched you build it and are already waiting to watch you do it again.

You've spent your life putting everyone first. This is the month youchoose yourself.

What you get

  • A daily structure every day of the month, so you never wonder what doing the work means.
  • A weekly Lock-In List, the specific things you actually do.
  • Two live calls with me. Replays included if you can't make it live.
  • The private Telegram, a chat full of serious women who clap out loud when you win.
  • The Notion tracker that holds your evidence.

The part nobody else has

An AI dashboard trained on me. You tell it your goal, it tracks where you are, nudges you back into the room, and keeps your head right on the days you want to quit. I'll show you how to set it up on the kickoff call.

The shape of it

Length
One month
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$197 Full Experience or $47 self-paced
Each week
A Lock-In List
Full Experience
Private Telegram, live calls, Notion tracker
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How it works

Here's how one month turns into all of that.

01

Before it starts

You name your starting line and your finish line. Not twenty goals. One. The thing that, if it moved, moves everything else with it.

02

August 3, the opening call

You say your finish line out loud, to me and to the room. The second you name it, it stops being a someday and becomes the thing fifteen women are now rooting for.

03

Week two

Motivation runs out, right on schedule. You find out what actually runs this once it does.

04

Week three

The excuses come back, dressed up as good reasons. This is the week the room reminds you they're just the diluting again, and it earns its whole price.

05

Week four

You stop chasing motivation and start collecting evidence. Receipts you can point at.

06

August 31, the closing call

We look at what you built. Not a new woman. The one you already were, finally out loud.

Vanessa Santos, founder of Build The Dream

Who's in it with you

I'm Vanessa Santos. I built a company I loved more than myself, lost it in an exit with no upside, and rebuilt my whole life at 42. I am not here to motivate you and I am not here to fix you, because nothing about you is broken. I am here to close the gap between who you are and who you are being out loud, remind you who the f*ck you are on the days you forget, and refuse to let you give up on yourself.

I keynoted Forbes' Most Powerful Women of Latin America, was named Inaugural Entrepreneur of the Year by the Hispanic Heritage Foundation and Nationwide, presented at the Kennedy Center, and won a CES 2017 Innovation Award at Mastercard.

Honest fit

Is this your room?

This is for you if

  • You already know you are the real deal. You want one month where you finally put yourself first.
  • You have one goal you could name right now, and you are done letting twenty smaller ones bury it.
  • You want women who clap out loud when you win, and mean it.

This isn’t

  • You want someone to tell you that you are broken and then fix you. Nothing here is broken, and this is not that.
  • You keep score by status and net worth. In this room a woman just starting and a woman with millions are the same kind of serious, and if that bothers you, it is not your room.

Join the September waitlist

August is full and closed. Put your name down and you'll be first through the door when the next cohort opens, before it goes public to anyone else.

No spam. Just the date, and your spot before anyone else.

Don’t want to wait for September? The $47 self-paced guide is the full 31-day system, yours to run on your own time, starting today. Get the self-paced guide →

Life is long, but time moves fast. You can spend another month being the real deal in private, or you can give yourself one month to aim everything at the one thing and walk out lethal, precise, decided, and completely unf*ckable with. You already know who you are. This is where you stop saying it quietly.

The August cohort is closed. The waitlist gets the September doors first.

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